When you and your partner engage in explicit and erotic conversation, it creates a potent cocktail of anticipation, excitement, and connection. Sharing your deepest thoughts and cravings strengthens your emotional bond with your partner. No matter the challenges to building your skill at dirty talk, accepting it as a natural and erotic form of communication will open the door to the many benefits those naughty whispers bring to your playtime.
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Having this simple exchange out loud will evaporate a huge amount of anxiety around your future dirty talking sex-capades. This initial chat is also a great opportunity to talk about your turn-ons, turn-offs and boundaries around dirty talk. Sussing out the other person’s parameters going in will ease your mind by knowing in advance what’s okay and what’s not. That paralyzing feeling of risk most often generated by a fear of negative judgement from the other person, which can be amplified by having been raised in a religious or sexually repressed family, or culture. Some people want their dirty talk to include very clinical descriptions of their genitals (penis, vagina) while others want the dirtier street slang (cock, pussy, dick, cunt, etc.). For example, you might have a female partner with a relatively high sex drive, but she only seems to get revved up when she’s “in the mood”, and you’re always left guessing as to when that is.
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Your man could submit to you, the powerful woman, or you can take turns with dominance and submission. A person who enjoys both roles is known as a switch [1, 2], and a switch gets to experience both sides of the coin. How to talk dirty seems to be an issue with both Vanilla couples as well as marriage’s sexiest secret couples that practice Domination and submission or D
Whether you’re starting out with dirty talk for the first time ever, or you’re starting to have sex with a new partner and just want to slowly test the waters, the following phrases have you covered. Tell them you’d love to spice things up with a little dirty talk, but you’re feeling a little apprehension and shyness around doing so. Make a mutual agreement to take risks and accept each other, no matter what you say. Give each other full permission to experiment without shame, for the betterment of your relationship. Make sure you check in with your partner (outside of the bedroom, when you aren’t being sexual with each other) to see if there’s any words that they want you to avoid during your dirty talk.
But not all dominants identify as sadists, and the same goes for submissives and masochists. Dirty talk might seem pretty low-key on the kinkiness scale, but that doesn’t make it any less legitimate—or any less hot as hell. “Some kinks are more typical than others, but they aren’t more normal or acceptable for that reason,” Richmond says. While exchanging nasty sweet nothings during sex can be a kink in its own right, it’s also a lovely way to dip your toes in the water of other kinks that might take more time, energy, and preparation. For example, let’s say that you’re super turned on by the idea of an MMF threesome but not quite ready to go there yet in real life.
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- For most people, talking dirty doesn’t exactly come naturally.
- Out of the 1392 participants, 864 (62.1%) claimed one or more clinical condition, which exceeds that of worldwide general population [20].
- According to Jean, that anticipatory style of trash talk is most effective and makes the experience playful rather than frightening.
Rachel Varina is a full-time freelance writer covering everything from the best vibrators (the Lelo Sona) to the best TV shows (The Vampire Diaries). She has over 10 years of editorial experience with bylines at Women’s Health, Elite Daily, Betches, and more. She lives in Tampa, Florida, but did not feed her husband to tigers. When she’s not testing out new sex toys (100+ and counting so far!), she’s likely chilling with her dogs or eating buffalo chicken dip. Cuckolding is a form of the aforementioned erotic humiliation of watching your partner have sex with someone else. A cuck is a submissive who gets off on their partner having sex with someone else.
